The Christian Recorder was “Published by the African Methodist Episcopal Church in the United States, for the Dissemination of Religion, Morality, Literature and Science.” in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
Accessible Archives subscribers can find The Christian Recorder in complete form from 1861 through December 1902; excluding 1892.
This article on with parenting advice appeared in January of 1861.
EXCESSIVE LENIENCY TO CHILDREN
That is a mistaken policy which sacrifices the future good of the child to his present indulgence. It may be pleasant to avoid the struggle with self-will, and the effort of subduing it; but will it be agreeable in coming years, to reap the fruits of such neglect in the sad ruin of a son or daughter? Painful as it may be to harrow the young heart with the grief of chastisement, may it not, thereby, like the harrowed field, be the better prepared for the “good seed?” The experience of the world, in this respect, has amply verified the proverb: – “He that spareth his rod, hateth his son.” “My father was too easy with me,” exclaimed a young man in college, upon being remonstrated with for the sin of intemperance. He admitted that he was doing wrong – that he was on the road to ruin – and on being told that he was not compelled to drink, he exclaimed, – “No, not compelled; but you do not know what it is to get a taste for liquor. I am a miserable fellow. My father was too easy with me when I was a boy.” (more…)